Hi Friends,
It’s a long weekend for many of us, and I truly hope you find space to rest, laugh, and connect with the people who feel like home.
I came across a quote recently that stopped me in my tracks:
“A chip on the shoulder is too heavy a piece of baggage to carry through life.”
— John Hancock
John Hancock is often remembered for his bold, unmistakable signature on the Declaration of Independence. He was a complex figure, a revolutionary leader, a statesman, and someone who stood up for freedom in uncertain times. For someone so associated with pride and boldness, this quote carries even more weight. It’s a reminder that real strength isn’t loud or defensive. It’s rooted in clarity, calm, and letting go of what doesn’t serve us.
That chip on the shoulder, resentment, the need to prove ourselves, the quiet ache of old wounds can start to feel like part of who we are. It might have helped us endure or push forward at one point. But over time, it becomes a burden. It hardens the heart, narrows our path, and drains our joy.
Letting go of it doesn’t mean pretending nothing ever hurt us. It means choosing peace over performance. It’s saying to ourselves, I don’t need to carry this anymore. I am strong enough without it.
So this weekend, if you notice your shoulders tightening or that inner voice rising to defend or explain, take a breath. Ask yourself gently, What if I could set this down, even just for a moment to experience lightness and freedom.
Wishing you peace and happiness from my heart to yours!
Peace
Monita